What Russian Women Are Looking For
What young beautiful Russian, Ukrainian, Eastern European women are looking for in a foreign man.
Maybe you are asking ask yourself ‘Why are so many Russian women looking for a foreign man?’
Let us provide you with some background information about Russia and some other things that you should know:
In Russia it is normal that women get married very young. Then they can bear more healthy children then woman over 30. They are ready to marry from age 18, most of the women are married between 18 and 23 years old and they sometimes already have 1 or 2 children. If a Russian woman is not married before 25, then she will be considered as strange or weird. Most very young Russian women start very early looking for their future husband, because they are afraid they will be left alone, that they will be too old and will not be able to find a good husband. Many Russian women will also divorce at a very young age (20-25 years). Woman being divorced in Russia also have their own problems in finding another man in Russia.
All these reasons have everything to do with the Russian culture. Just ’living together’ is generally not an option in relation to the Russian culture. If two young people want to live together, then they should be married first. After the USSR fell more and more often Russian young people choose ’living together without marriage’. But today old traditions are returning. For this reason, Russian women prefer foreign men with possible marriage..
Another important reason is that not all Russian men are ready to marry at 20-25 years old because they don’t have money for a new family. Young Russian men especially are waiting longer before they are thinking about marriage. This fact gives the young Russian woman a reason to look 'somewhere else', because they are afraid that when the Russian man is ready for marriage, there will not be enough men for her to choose from. The young Russian woman doesn't want to wait for marriage.
In Russia it can be tough to find a good job. In fact it is only in the large cities that this is less of a problem. However, it can still be a problem, and in small cities, towns and the countryside it is a huge problem. Many people live in poor houses have no job or have hard low paying jobs. Many Russian men don’t see any future. Many Russian men will often drink and as result maybe addicted to alcohol. Not all, of course, but this problem is a significant one.
For the Russian women, this is not an acceptable situation or the future she is waiting for.
Concerning a certain age-group among the Russian women, you can say that Russian women between the age 30 and 45 are condemned to stay alone. There is almost no Russian man who is looking for marriage with such an ‘old’ woman. Hard to believe it, but unfortunately, it's true.
Another possible reason why Russian women seek foreign men is the fact that Russian women don’t have any faith in the economical future of Russia, although the Russian economy is recovering slowly, Russian women don’t want to wait so long for undefined results. Russian women are in general highly-educated persons and hard workers and they also want to use their education in a normal economical atmosphere. Russia still has a long way to go to accomplish this and the women will often feel they do not have enough time to wait for this, because in time they will be too old to find a good man.
Of course every woman wants her child or children to grow up in a quo;safe environmentquo;.
In summary, the real reasons why women will loook for a foreign man, is a combination of all of the above. Economical reasons, security and the added combination of finding a trustworthy foreign husband.
What are Russian women usually looking for?
The answer to this question is very simple.
All Russian women (in much the same way as most normal women) are looking for a trustworthy, reliable, healthy and respectful husband who lives a normal life in a normal country with an acceptable financial living standard to support a family under normal conditions.
Most of these women are not specifically looking for rich men. They don't need 2 or more cars, a TV in every room, two boats and two houses and five holidays every year.
Equally they are also not looking for a man who likes to drink a lot or uses drugs now and then, or doesn't have enough means to support a family, or is just lazy, or someone who is just looking for a housekeeper.
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